Today is a day of very conflicting emotions. Happiness for
the launch of my daughter's 501 (c) 3 nonprofit, and the final rites for my
best friend, Yvette Rene Mills.
As I prepare to move through this day, I
am thankful that God has once again smiled on me and allowed me to wake up
among the living.
Another great even occurring in my life
today is that a woman I have never met is in Maryland and she and I are
planning to meet for the first time, not on businesses, but to confirm a
friendship that we've started online. Not sure of her schedule yet, but I
am sure that I plan to meet her while she is in Maryland, and to begin the
journey of friendship.
Friendships and relationship are
important. My Mother once told me that if you had ONE real friend in this
lifetime, you would be richer than words could ever express. But if you
had TWO, there would be no money on earth as valuable.
I can say today without hesitation, I have
at least four friends (Jesse Moore, Yvette Rene Mills, Washington Armstrong,
III, and Patricia D. Fenn) that have been my CLOSE and PERSONAL friends for
more than four decades. MY TRUE BFFs through thick and thin. They
have been my sisters and brother. They have walked with me a mile in my
shoes. They have seen my hurt and my pain. They have gone with me
through my divorce, raising of my children, difficult times on the job, and
through my good times. They have been there when I called late at night.
Today a second one of my BFF's will be
laid to rest, and I am feeling kind of torn, kind of worried about what lies
ahead, and on our circle being so fractured. Jesse Moore would say
"hang in there Lynn, I got your back and you know it." Yvette
would say, "Cut, you have always been a woose when it comes to death and
funerals, so don't show up at my funeral to prove your friendship on my
account. I know how you are!"
My children believe that I have acquired some of the strangest people on earth to include in my inner circle, and I think they are right. They have got to be strange to put up with a character like me. I am honored to be called their friends. My circle of influence hold some other close friends, Martha, Adrienne, Marlene, Diane and now Ida. I hope and pray that as the year come and go, they too will become my new BFFs...at least one or two of them.
Patricia D. Fenn, and Washington
Armstrong, III are taking this walk with me. They have every intention of
standing by my side. To attend the Breakfast this morning, and the wake
and funeral later on, IF I choose to go. OR they are prepared to take me
to the casino, a bar, another church or whatever it takes today to make sure
that I am alright. I guess, my Mother would say that I have been truly
blessed and HIGHLY favored to have such loyal and dedicated friends in my
circle.
So as I prepare to continue my journey
through life today, I want to thank my two remaining BFFs for their love,
loyalty, friendship, courage, and willingness to stand by me. I just pray
that I am as good of a friend to them as they have always been to me.
Feeling the love guys!
Thank you.